Respond, and be friendly when she calls, but rarely make the initial contact. If she wants
to get together, that's great--provided you are not busy. A general rule of thumb is:
contact him one time for every 3 times he contacts you. Also, keep the conversation
under 10 minutes, and be sure you are the one to end the call.
4. Act content with your life.
People never reject anyone they perceive as peace of mind. When you have contact with
this person, act happy. Note: don’t say you’re happy, or impress upon this person how
“happy” you are; this will only backfire.
5. No serious talk – small talk and happy talk only.
No fighting, arguing, criticizing, or complaining. Especially, stop talking about your
feelings and inner life; NEVER mention being single, being lonely, being a loser, being
unlovable, having bad luck, or how long it’s been since you had a date. Keep utter
secrecy and mystery about your inner life. NO serious talk about the state of any
relationship unless it is positive. Stick to small talk and happy talk only.
6. Do the activities you used to enjoy together, except with others.
Invite her occasionally, but do not wait for her to live your life and be happy.
to get together, that's great--provided you are not busy. A general rule of thumb is:
contact him one time for every 3 times he contacts you. Also, keep the conversation
under 10 minutes, and be sure you are the one to end the call.
4. Act content with your life.
People never reject anyone they perceive as peace of mind. When you have contact with
this person, act happy. Note: don’t say you’re happy, or impress upon this person how
“happy” you are; this will only backfire.
5. No serious talk – small talk and happy talk only.
No fighting, arguing, criticizing, or complaining. Especially, stop talking about your
feelings and inner life; NEVER mention being single, being lonely, being a loser, being
unlovable, having bad luck, or how long it’s been since you had a date. Keep utter
secrecy and mystery about your inner life. NO serious talk about the state of any
relationship unless it is positive. Stick to small talk and happy talk only.
6. Do the activities you used to enjoy together, except with others.
Invite her occasionally, but do not wait for her to live your life and be happy.